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posted by [personal profile] selkie at 09:41pm on 13/09/2005
I have a wife.

This is a very odd thing to be able to say.

I have the papers to legally change my name to [Mrs Selkie N's-Last-Name].

We're married. We have a certificate of the legal solemnisation of marriage, the exact same certificate issued to heterosexual couples who plunk down $211.25 CN at the registry counter in Toronto.

So I am someone's wife and I have a wife. So odd. So wonderful.

For those confused and trying to keep score, the huge ceremony, party and feast opportunity in October is technically a 'celebration of union'. This was just.... something we did for ourselves. Something we needed to do. And it's wonderful.
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posted by [identity profile] fire-and-a-rose.livejournal.com at 01:47am on 14/09/2005
*beams and is so happy for you both*
 
posted by [identity profile] ygrane.livejournal.com at 01:49am on 14/09/2005
CONGRATULATIONS!
 
posted by [identity profile] metallumai.livejournal.com at 02:02am on 14/09/2005
Conratulations!! So Happy for you! Long may you wave!


Be nice to each other.
 
posted by [identity profile] metallumai.livejournal.com at 02:03am on 14/09/2005
can't spell. It's the thought, isn't it--- conggggratulations, I mean! :D
 
posted by [identity profile] muchabstracted.livejournal.com at 02:05am on 14/09/2005
Congratulations congratulations congratulations! *beams* This is something for which words fail.
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posted by [personal profile] misslucyjane at 02:07am on 14/09/2005
Aww. It's wonderful. Kisses to you both.
 
posted by [identity profile] indy-go.livejournal.com at 02:08am on 14/09/2005
*hugs tight* You two make me happy. Thanks for that.

Blessings upon you now and always.
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posted by [personal profile] sovay at 02:18am on 14/09/2005
Mazel tov!
 
posted by [identity profile] strange-selkie.livejournal.com at 01:39pm on 15/09/2005
Oh, there you are. Are you famous yet, or what? Are you at least famous in a parallel dimension in an ancient land where they cut people's hands off and there was psychosexually bizarre feminine deity worship? Because I keep looking in the papers, and seeing no sign....
 
posted by [identity profile] debka-notion.livejournal.com at 02:27am on 14/09/2005
Mazal Tov, best wishes and really, and truly all my best to you both.
 
posted by [identity profile] agoodshinkickin.livejournal.com at 03:29am on 14/09/2005
Wooo HOOO! PARTY!

I mean..um...congrats.
 
posted by [identity profile] oneechan19.livejournal.com at 03:49am on 14/09/2005
Yay! Congrats to you both!
 
posted by [identity profile] georgiamagnolia.livejournal.com at 04:15am on 14/09/2005
*very happy for you*

May your lives together be filled with Every Good Thing.

Brightest Blessings!
 
posted by [identity profile] rushthatspeaks.livejournal.com at 04:30am on 14/09/2005
Ain't no feeling like it. Very many congratulations!
 
posted by [identity profile] gaudior.livejournal.com at 04:13pm on 14/09/2005
What she said. Congrats, congrats, congrats, and be happy!
 
posted by [identity profile] tibicina.livejournal.com at 07:01am on 14/09/2005
Congradulations! I'm SOOOO happy for you!
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posted by [identity profile] fahye.livejournal.com at 11:23am on 14/09/2005
*beams*

You make me happy. Both of you. Constantly.

Congratulations and best wishes and mad trans-Pacific hugs and all that jazz!
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posted by [personal profile] eruthros at 12:09pm on 14/09/2005
Congratulations! So very very yay! I'm so happy for you.
 
posted by [identity profile] lonespark.livejournal.com at 12:09pm on 14/09/2005
Duuuude... That's awesome! I didn't know about the name changing. You go!
*Squees madly at both of you*
 
posted by [identity profile] tenillypo.livejournal.com at 12:33pm on 14/09/2005
Congratulations! Love to you both. :)
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posted by [identity profile] strange-selkie.livejournal.com at 02:52pm on 14/09/2005
We couldn't get tickets to Brokeback Mountain, wah. But we had a fabulous time, and we're coming back as soon as we can. Is Etobicoke far? I have this new-formed fear of the 160-km-hr drivers on the QEW.
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posted by [personal profile] batyatoon at 03:32pm on 14/09/2005
Mawidge, that bwessed awwangement, that dweam wiffin a dweam...

:) Congratulations and much love to you both.
 
posted by [identity profile] strange-selkie.livejournal.com at 04:04pm on 14/09/2005
Mawidge is what bwings us togevvaw today.
 
posted by (anonymous) at 05:45pm on 14/09/2005
Mawidge! Dat bwessed awangement, dat dweam wivin a dweam!

*cracks up!*

CONGRATULATIONS SELKIE AND RAMI!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *SHOWERS YOU WITH RICE & BLESSINGS!!!!!*
 
posted by [identity profile] invisible9fire.livejournal.com at 07:59pm on 14/09/2005
Congratulations!
 
posted by [identity profile] morvoren.livejournal.com at 05:16am on 15/09/2005
Congratulations, and my best wishes to the both of you for your life ahead.
 
posted by [identity profile] zaliness.livejournal.com at 06:26am on 15/09/2005
congrats.
:)

*mwah* to both of you!
 
posted by [identity profile] miep.livejournal.com at 11:54am on 15/09/2005
*happy bounce*

mazel tov! in all the craziness, just remember that there is nothing that can happen with the whole thingy in october that can make you not married -- that was the only thought that got me through august. my wife and i took a similar route, though we got civililly united in ver,ont, cuz hey, they have cows. and mountains. maybe canada will happen next summer. we think we might just go around collect licenses.

yay!
 
posted by [identity profile] armonie.livejournal.com at 11:16pm on 15/09/2005
Simon tov and mazel tov, mazel tov and simon tov, yehei lanu...
Just one problem...who's gonna break the glass? :o) All the best and I wish you many happy years ahead.
 
posted by [identity profile] strange-selkie.livejournal.com at 01:04pm on 16/09/2005
Depending on the shoes she picks, Nicole is going to break the glass :) If we both wear heels, though ,we'll end up breaking a lightbulb or something else loud and flimsy. It's all so very complicated, this smashing things.
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posted by [identity profile] m-shell.livejournal.com at 04:44pm on 17/09/2005
congrats and mazel tov! i'm so very happy for you both. ^_^

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