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posted by [personal profile] selkie at 09:17pm on 25/03/2010
So, this is awkward. I've never done it before, but I don't know what to do, and I believe in the power of the internet.

A good friend, unemployed, living with her mother, unemployed and with MS, and her one-year-old son, is down to the really really last bit of her money. This is the money from selling their cars, every thing of value they own, and living out of some Rubbermaid bins. Sometime soon, she won't have enough money to take her vast and ancient used car out to job interviews. If she doesn't interview for jobs, obviously she won't get any job. She's still navigating, and continually being stalled and rebuffed by, the state assistance programs, which are more strained than usual.

So if you ever wanted to get me a birthday present and never got around to it, or you meant to send us a baby gift, or you need to pay something forward today and you were looking for a way to do it, please consider PayPal-ing to russetblack at gmail dot com. You'll get a nice thank-you card in return, and I'll owe you a favor.

Thank you for reading.

/awkward
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posted by [identity profile] bayleaf.livejournal.com at 02:49am on 26/03/2010
sent. :) Best of luck to your friend.
 
posted by [identity profile] strange-selkie.livejournal.com at 03:13pm on 29/03/2010
Thank you so much! Best of luck to YOU, too. When do you hear anything? I apologize if you already have -- I've been under a baby-shaped rock.
 
posted by [identity profile] bayleaf.livejournal.com at 05:41pm on 29/03/2010
Nothing yet! Hopefully I'll hear sometime in the next two weeks. The next time the admissions committee meets is a week from today, so definitely won't hear before next week.
 
posted by [identity profile] pure-doxyk.livejournal.com at 01:38pm on 26/03/2010
Too much of that going around, dammit. Sent something as a representative of Michigan, Official State of Disaster. ;)
 
posted by [identity profile] strange-selkie.livejournal.com at 03:14pm on 29/03/2010
Thank you! I hope you dodge disasters this year.
 
posted by [identity profile] whitsun.livejournal.com at 01:42pm on 26/03/2010
copperbadge directed me here - I'm having a run of good luck, and although there's not much money associated with said luck, I wanted to pay it forward so I'm sending a few bucks over...please don't worry about a thank you card! Happy birthday!
 
posted by [identity profile] strange-selkie.livejournal.com at 03:14pm on 29/03/2010
Thank you so much! I appreciate it.
 
posted by [identity profile] weered1.livejournal.com at 02:13pm on 26/03/2010
Sent a little something.
 
posted by [identity profile] strange-selkie.livejournal.com at 03:13pm on 29/03/2010
Thanks! We're going to do a Visa prepaid card.
 
posted by [identity profile] in-a-tizzy.livejournal.com at 02:27pm on 26/03/2010
linked from Copperbadge....

Has she gone to WIC? What state is she in? There are a lot of services out there for helping navigate state welfare limbo and the hell that goes with it.

(I am unemployed or I would totally send something)
 
posted by [identity profile] strange-selkie.livejournal.com at 03:12pm on 29/03/2010
Yup, she's just in and out of various appointments and regulations. It's a good thing she HASN'T got a job -- she spends most of her time sitting at state agency offices. Thankfully, they have food and medical care. It's things like job placement and training, and money for things like tampons and gasoline, that are going short.

I hope you find something perfect very soon!
 
posted by [identity profile] lonespark.livejournal.com at 03:41pm on 26/03/2010
I would send something but I haven't got Paypal.
 
posted by [identity profile] strange-selkie.livejournal.com at 03:11pm on 29/03/2010
Issok, you have many bigger fish to fry. *hugs*
 
posted by [identity profile] faos.livejournal.com at 09:46pm on 28/03/2010
Here via Copperbadge, sent a bit.

Good luck to your friend -- I hope things start looking up!

ETA - don't worry about a card; it's nice to be able to help even a little bit.
Edited Date: 2010-03-28 09:48 pm (UTC)
 
posted by [identity profile] strange-selkie.livejournal.com at 03:11pm on 29/03/2010
Thank you! I really appreciate it. :)
 
posted by [identity profile] imaginarycircus.livejournal.com at 06:45pm on 03/04/2010
done.
 
posted by [identity profile] serialkeller.livejournal.com at 03:36pm on 06/04/2010
hey there, here via Rami. Money's a little tight but i was able to send a little over. Hope things turn 'round for her!

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